Diana's Philosophies

FOR MEN AND WOMEN
‘105 Critical Questions’

The list of questions below is designed to assist you in selecting a life mate.
It may also be used to evaluate your current relationship. The questions are in no particular order of importance. You must ask yourself these simple, and some, not so simple questions with the beginning phrase: Does she… or for the ladies, Does he…
[other examples are phrased appropriately]

1. Understand that my child/children will always come first (even if this is your first marriage, after the children enter the union they will always rate number one in priority-if this is your second or third time around, then you already know how it works)?
2. Do nice things for me?
3. Pack me a nutritious lunch and prepare healthful meals?
4. Iron my clothes and lay them out for me in the morning?
5. Replace the roll of toilet paper when it runs out?
6. Select, wash, cut, and package neatly-vegetables as a daily staple?
7. Promote vitamin/supplement usage?
8. Inspire me to maintain good health and fitness?
9. Take care of me in every way?
10. Tell me I’m handsome/beautiful?
11. Give me unsolicited compliments?
12. Respect me?
13. Respect my personal property and privacy?
14. Make me feel good about myself?
15. Give me something to look forward to?
16. Excite me, entice me and satisfy my needs?
17. Fulfill my deepest needs wants and desires?
18. Share with me hope dreams and ideas?
19. Enhance my happiness?
20. Praise my achievements and successes?
21. Inspire me to do great things?
22. Inspire me to help others change their lives for the better?
23. Is she/he kind to animals and children?
24. Offer words of support when I am down?
25. Encourage my relationships with children whom she did not bear or whom he did not father?
26. Support my spirituality?
27. Pray for me?
28. Put me before all others, (except for God and the children)?
29. Show me she/he is grateful for all I do?
30. Encourage me to fulfill my dreams?
31. Use a thoughtful tone when speaking with me?
32. Assist me in generating income?
33. Continually explore new ways to help increase income?
34. Keep my, her/his, or our closets organized?
35. Pick up dry cleaning in a timely manner?
36. Maintain a clean and tidy home?
37. Work outside the home-30 hours per week or more?
38. Manage time well, accomplishing much in a short amount of time?
39. Live in a patterned state of chaos?
40. Take the initiative to clean my vehicle?
41. Keep her/his own vehicle clean inside and out?
42. Maintain all vehicles properly?
43. Keep home office items organized?
44. Pay ALL bills on time?
45. Pay the proper amount, e.g., lawyers, credit cards, etc.?
46. File paid bill statements for easy access when necessary?
47. Keep ALL finances organized and cash flow accounted for?
48. File income taxes on time?
49. Advise me on all financial issues?
50. Consult with me before making large purchases?
51. Demonstrate to me fiscal responsibility?
52. Clip coupons to save a few bucks?
53. Investigate where to shop for the lowest price?
54. Shop conservatively to save money?
55. Donate to charity: time, money, clothes, food, toys, etc.?
56. Donate blood?
57. Invest wisely?
58. Follow up on outstanding items such as vehicle registrations,
insurance billings, requests for documents, etc.?
59. Save money for the future?
60. Set goals and achieve them?
61. Respect herself/himself?
62. Like herself-the woman she has become [himself-the man he has become]?
63. Take care of herself/himself?
64. Keep her/his body clean and healthy?
65. Keep her/his face, hair and teeth in excellent condition?
66. Maintain a healthy weight and size proportionate to height?
67. Present herself/himself as a confident woman/man?
68. Treat people who serve her with respect and kindness (waitresses, store clerks, gardener, etc.)?
69. Always say please and thank you?
70. Have true friends and established life long relationships?
71. Does my mother and family like her/him?
72. Like my mother, father, family and friends?
73. Do others say good things about her/him?
74. Inspire love and kindness among strangers?
75. Go out of her/his way to do good for others?
76. Thank me for providing a luxurious lifestyle (if applicable)?
77. Thank me when I buy her/him things, e.g., meals, gifts, etc.?
78. Thank me for giving her/him money (if applicable)?
79. Thank me for vacations?
80. Know who me completely and what I’m all about?
81. Trust me completely?
82. Have regular talks with God?
83. Provide order, structure, and discipline?
84. Express how much she/he really loves me?
85. Keep the secrets I tell her/him, e.g., financial, emotional, etc.?
86. Is she/he honest with me in every way?
87. Make promises and keep them?
88. Use ‘guilt trips’ to get what she/he wants?

THE REST OF THE QUESTIONS SHOULD BE ASKED AS PHRASED:

89. Is she/he obviously happy with her/his life?
90. Is she/he independent in every way?
91. Can she/he make it on her/his own?
92. Is she/he smart?
93. Is she/he sexy?
94. Is she/he reliable? Can you always count on her/him to be there?
95. Is she/he responsible in every way, fiscally, legally, morally, spiritually?
96. Is she/he a good person?
97. Is she a good mother, he a good father?
98. Is she/he my best friend?
99. Do I like the person she/he is?
100. Does she/he have a positive outlook on life?
101. Do we agree on most subjects?
102. When we disagree, is the dispute resolved quickly and reasonably?
101. Does she/he give me a reason to live?
102. Can I be completely honest with her/him, in every way?
103. Can I spend the rest of my life with her/him?
104. Do I have one doubt about her/him or our relationship?
105. Do I love her/him honestly and unconditionally?

Number of YES answers_______ Number of NO answers________

If you answer NO to more than 40 questions, the person you may thought to have been your perfect companion, partner, wife, husband, or life-mate, most certainly is not! If you enter into a state of marriage with this person you can expect your relationship, albeit promising, satisfying, unique, or fantastic; will ultimately fail. You must re-evaluate your situation immediately. If you have children you must consider how this negative individual will affect them. Children always come first, like it or not. If you don’t like it, then don’t get involved with a person who has children!